Daddy’s Rules of Submission.
Private:
Private interaction inside either Daddy’s or a sub’s home can range from the most intimate of moments to the most mundane of tasks. Many times there is no call for specific rules or regulations to be placed on conduct because in a long term relationship there are many instances where the two are simply coexisting in the same space for the moment and therefore there are no relationship issues to be addressed. However, this does not mean that during these times the rules are simply thrown out the window. What it simply means is that there is no reason to restate these rules and they should be adhered to simply as second nature or as a general interest in caring for your Daddy and growing as a sub.
A Fit Sub is a Happy Sub.
A sub is required to always be aware of their physical condition. She must always strive to be as attractive and physically fit as possible for Daddy. If circumstances in life are making it difficult for a sub to maintain their conditioning then they may ask Daddy if they may “slack off” for a short time. If Daddy agrees that it is necessary then a sub may discontinue their daily routine until instructed to resume.
Wear What Daddy Likes.
A sub will choose her own attire during day to day activities. However, at any time Daddy may choose to have her change attire and or put on restraints or other gear. There will be no arguing or pouting about what Daddy chooses for her to wear. When attire hasn’t been chosen by Daddy it is a sub’s responsibility to continue to look her best and wear clothing and accessories which are attractive and pleasing.
Daddy’s Home is His Castle.
One of a sub’s primary responsibilities is to take care of her and Daddy’s living and playing space. This duty is ongoing and should be a daily activity of a sub with no complaint and without requiring constant reminders from Daddy. It should be carried out simply because a clean space is needed for a happy environment.
Peace and Quiet for Daddy.
Conversation in the home should be open, honest, and free. A sub should never feel that they cannot speak their mind. However, it is never okay for a sub to talk down, raise their voice, question Daddy’s authority, act defiantly, or interrupt Daddy. If it is questionable whether a topic of conversation is appropriate then a sub should ask with extreme caution and without malice whether Daddy thinks that it is an appropriate topic. If Daddy says no then a sub may write out their questions or thoughts and give them to Daddy for later reading. Also, if Daddy simply does not feel like hearing any conversation at the time a sub will remain quiet until her Daddy lets her know that he is ready to hear what she has to say.
In the Future.
A sub should continuously strive to learn better and more effective ways to please her Daddy. She should not think of herself as a person while doing this but as a tool to create pleasure and satisfaction for her Daddy. Personal likes and dislikes should eventually be cast aside and replaced with an instinct and hunger to use one’s self toward the happiness of another. After all, the choice of submission is for Daddy just as much as it is for a sub.
Public:
When traveling outside the home the rules of good behavior are fewer. However, they are all that more important and must be followed to the letter by a submissive. This is because in public situations not only is the interrelationship of the sub and Daddy at play but also the thoughts, feelings, and ideas of others on that relationship.
Public Interaction Involving Non-Lifestyle Others.
A sub should feel free to speak their own mind and express freely their views personality and humor during public interaction involving Vanillas (maybe they are and maybe their not).
Daddy Sets the Pace.
When walking, driving, boating, skipping, riding, running, strolling, or even during a good mosey, a sub should follow the pace and direction set by daddy. At no time shall a sub pull or push daddy to move faster or slower. It is not the job of a sub to lead daddy even if the sub is familiar with their surroundings and daddy is not. A sub may politely suggest a direction or a plan of action in a quick and meaningful manner. Then it is at the discretion of Daddy to decide whether said actions are best. If another direction is taken by Daddy it is not the place of a sub to disagree or make suggestion through word or body language disapproval of the decision.
Politeness is A Virtue.
At all times a sub should keep in mind that they are an extension of their Daddy and that their conduct directly reflects upon both them as a couple and on Daddy as a person. Public displays of disapproval, disgust, insubordination, and or anything more than polite disagreement is not allowed. Polite disagreement should be put forth in an amicable manner such as a suggestion or a question which can be discussed by the group. Disagreements more complex or intense than this are not a public matter and should be discussed in the privacy of the home and nowhere else.
Daddy has A Name.
A sub will refer to Daddy in one of two ways while in public with non-lifestyle friends. They will use either their Daddy’s given name or a discussed and agreed upon “Pet” name. It is the sub’s responsibility to understand the situation and which name would be appropriate in that particular situation I.E. a sub would never refer to their Daddy as baby or sweetie etc. in mixed company including coworkers or during other business interactions.
Public Interaction Involving Other Lifestyle Members.
In situations where there is no mixed company and all involved are aware and of similar lifestyle choices then all rules contained in the “Private” section above apply in addition to the following.
A subs place is by their Daddy’s side.
At no time is a sub allowed to wonder off without first asking permission. If a sub needs to be excused for some reason she should politely ask if she may be excused and state the reason for that need. If Daddy says no to the request a sub may not disobey, pout, argue, ask for a reason, or display any other inappropriate reaction.
A subs First Responsibility is to Take Care of Their Daddy.
At all times a sub should be aware and try to predict the needs of their Daddy in a situation. When a need is identified a sub should politely ask their Daddy if he would like that need fulfilled and how. Then she should politely excuse herself and fulfill the need as quickly as possible and to the best of her ability.
One and Only Daddy.
A sub does not interact with another Daddy, Dom, Master, Sub, Slave, Switch, etc. without asking permission. If approached by someone a sub should simply state that they are taken and end the conversation. If the other person persists then the sub should immediately return to her Daddy and explain the situation. Daddy will take care of it from there.
